Luxury Sussex wedding venue with accommodation near Brighton

Sussex Countryside Weddings
Tottington Manor

Weddings in a contemporary manor house
with views of the south downs

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Licensed for Weddings

A Countryside Wedding Venue in West Sussex with Accommodation

Tottington Manor is a countryside wedding venue in West Sussex, set at the foot of the South Downs National Park just 11 miles from Brighton. Licensed for civil ceremonies, receptions and evening celebrations, the venue offers beautiful indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces, South Downs views, private gardens and accommodation for wedding guests.

With 12 boutique bedrooms, AA Rosette dining from the TERRA kitchen, exclusive-use wedding spaces and flexible options for intimate weddings, full-day celebrations and two-day weddings, Tottington Manor is ideal for couples looking for a Sussex wedding venue with accommodation near Brighton, Worthing, Hove and Gatwick Airport.

  •    Licensed for marriages & civil ceremonies up to 100 Guests
  •   Evening reception up to 180 guests
  •    Intimate Weddings for 30 to 50 Guests
  •    Drinks & music until midnight included
  •   Late night licence until 2am available
  •    Delicious Wedding Food options prepared by our AA Rosette chefs

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Indoor & Outdoor

On Site Wedding Ceremony Areas

Exclusive Use

Beautiful Bedrooms

The Getting Ready Suites

Arrive the evening before your wedding and get settled into one of Getting Ready Suites, where you can relax, enjoy cocktails on the decking with your friends or indulge in a Celebration Dinner in one of our Private Dining Rooms, comfortable that you are ready for a stress free Wedding Day.
Waking up on the day of your wedding, your Wedding Hairdresser and Make up Artist can help you and your party to get ready, whilst our team provide a light breakfast and some bubbles to your getting ready suite for you all to enjoy.
You can then head down to our South Downs Suite and let your Wedding ceremony commence!

Getting Ready Rooms for your Wedding at Tottington Manor
Looking beautiful on your wedding day with your Make up Artist at Tottington Manor
Having your hair done on your wedding day in our getting ready room at Tottington Manor
Putting the finishing touches to your wedding dress in the Getting Ready Room at Tottington Manor
Heading off down the aisle after using the Getting Ready Room at Tottington Manor
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Bridesmaids getting ready at Tottington Manor
Outdoor Wedding Ceremonies in the South Downs Gardens near Brighton
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Say I do with Outdoor Ceremonies at Tottington Manor in Sussex
Say I do with Outdoor Ceremonies at Tottington Manor in Sussex
Say I do with Outdoor Ceremonies at Tottington Manor in Sussex

Your Sussex Wedding Ceremony

Tottington Manor is licensed for Wedding Ceremonies in our South Downs Suite, and also outside with the gorgeous countryside views of the South Downs National Park in the background. Your registrar or celebrant will guide you through your vows whilst your friends and family look on. Our indoor wedding ceremonies are licensed for up to 100 guests and our outside wedding ceremony areas are licensed for up to 180 guests.

After the Ceremony

It's time for confetti and celebrations!
Enjoy your Sussex sparkling wine and canapé reception with family and friends. Created by our AA Rosette Chefs from locally sourced ingredients.
Take in the views whilst you enjoy garden games and music on the lawn.

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Wedding Canapes from AA Rosette TERRA Restaurant at Tottington Manor Weddings in Sussex
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Best Grooms men Wedding Photograph at Tottington Manor in the South Downs National Park
Best Grooms men Wedding Photograph at Tottington Manor in the South Downs National Park
Best Grooms men Wedding Photograph at Tottington Manor in the South Downs National Park

Your Wedding Photographs

Your Wedding Photographs will give you the memories to look back on in years to come. Tottington Manor set in the hillsides of the South Downs, the Cows, the Lambs and the 17th Century Manor House and Gardens provide the perfect backdrop to your day, from Family Photos on the lawn, to romantic couple shots in the countryside, the time between your ceremony and your wedding breakfast is the time to get those formal, must have, shots taken leaving your Wedding Photographer to take candid and relaxed pictures throughout the rest of the day.

Eat, Drink & Toast

Round tables, long tables, fine dining or summer BBQ, your wedding reception should feel like you. The food is prepared by the same AA Rosette chefs behind our TERRA Restaurant, bringing the same local produce, care and flavour to your wedding day. A highlight of our couples' wedding planning is the food and wine tasting event with live music. A chance to invite family and friends as you finalise your menu and introduce them all to Tottington.

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Getting your wedding food ready for the best wedding reception at Tottington Manor in Sussex
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Evening Wedding Receptions at Tottington Manor with Buffet and DJ until Midnight
Evening Wedding Receptions at Tottington Manor with Buffet and DJ until Midnight
Live Wedding Bands at Tottington Manor Wedding Venue with accommodation in West Sussex
Live Wedding Bands at Tottington Manor Wedding Venue with accommodation in West Sussex

The Evening Do

Your evening guests are arriving, the floor is clear for dancing, it's time to party!
Whilst many venues have an early curfew, At Tottington the party goes on until midnight, with our after party option taking you through until 2am.
The best venue for your evening do is the one that keeps all your guests together, one dancefloor, one garden, one bar, all connected, exactly how it happens at Tottington.

No Taxis Required.

A wedding venue with accommodation... perfect! Wind down after the party with late night drinks by the firepit, before heading upstairs to your choice of twelve countryside rooms and suites to stay overnight, keeping your closest family and friends just a stone’s throw away. Luxury amenities, comfortable beds and standout individual features ensure everyone has a comfortable night’s sleep beneath the Downs.

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Wake up the morning after your wedding reception to stunning countryside views in the South Downs National Park
Wake up the morning after your wedding reception to stunning countryside views in the South Downs National Park
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Enjoy a Folingtons Fruit Juice whilst remembering the amazing wedding reception at Tottington Manor near Brighton
Enjoy a Great Breakfast after your wedding in TERRA Restaurant at Tottington Manor
Eat Breakfast outside with your family and friends after the perfect wedding day at Tottington Manor in the South Downs
Enjoy our South Downs Breakfast created from local ingredients and prepared by our AA Rosette Chefs after your wedding day at Tottington Manor in Sussex
Eggs Royale for the Bride and Groom with our Without the Champagne after the Perfect Wedding Day at Tottington Manor near Worthing

The Morning After | Farewell Breakfast

Wake up to the peaceful lull of the Downs on your first morning as a married couple, then head downstairs to meet your overnight guests in TERRA Restaurant. Reminisce and share memories from the night before over a delicious farewell breakfast as your Wedding celebrations draw to a close.

Wedding Packages & Pricing

Tottington Manor Wedding Pricing

Thoughtfully designed weddings at Tottington Manor, with transparent pricing for couples planning a countryside wedding with accommodation in West Sussex.

Two Day Hire

Exclusive

Two-day exclusive use of Tottington Manor, including bedrooms, dining, celebration drinks and farewell brunch.

  • Food and Wine Tasting Evening
  • Two Day Exclusive Use of Tottington Manor
  • All 12 Bedrooms for two nights
  • Complimentary Bars throughout your stay
  • Getting Ready Suites
  • Private AA Rosette Chef & Concierge
  • Master of Ceremonies
  • Wedding Co-ordinator
  • Champagne Reception & Afternoon Tea on arrival from 3pm on Day 1.
  • Cocktail Reception & 5 course Sussex Tasting Menu for all Resident Guests on 1st evening
  • Champagne Breakfast on Wedding Day
  • Wedding Ceremony
  • Luxury Canapés & Sussex Sparkling Celebration drinks
  • 4 Course Wedding Breakfast including premium wine
  • Champagne Toast
  • Cocktail Hour
  • Evening Buffet
  • DJ & Dancing until Midnight
  • Late Bar for guests
  • Farewell Brunch
  • Late Checkout at 12pm
Season20272028
Mar–Oct
December
£39990£42995
Jan–Feb
November
£36025£38725

Based on 70 Daytime guests
70 Evening Guests

Available Every Day

South Downs

A beautiful full-day wedding package with ceremony, drinks, wedding breakfast, evening buffet, DJ and accommodation touches.

  • Food and Wine Tasting Evening
  • Getting Ready Suite night before wedding
  • Sparkling Breakfast in Getting Ready Suite
  • Pre-Ceremony Guest Drinks
  • Exclusive use of our Downs Suite, Private Garden & Bar
  • Wedding Ceremony
  • Canapés & Sparkling Celebration
  • Three-course Wedding Breakfast
  • Tea and Coffee station after dinner until first dance
  • ½ Bottle Sussex wine & Sparkling Toast per guest
  • DJ & Dancing until Midnight
  • Full Evening Buffet & Cheese Board
  • Your Choice of Honeymoon Suite
  • Farewell Breakfast for resident guests
Season202620272028
Mar–Oct
December
£14250£16,950£18,450
Jan–Feb
November
£12,825£15,255£16,605

Based on 70 Daytime guests
70 Evening Guests

*We ensure that the remaining 11 rooms in the hotel are available exclusively for your wedding guests.

Every wedding is personal. Our team will help shape the right package around your guest list, season and vision.

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Wedding Pricing FAQs

Tottington Manor Wedding Questions

Helpful answers for couples considering Tottington Manor as their Wedding Venue.

Where is Tottington Manor

Tottington Manor Wedding Venue is 5 miles North of Brighton in West Sussex. We are in the South Downs National Park, surrounded by fields and hillsides, but only 10 minutes from the A27 coast road and the A23 which links to London Gatwick and the M25. Click Here for a Map

Can you only accommodate 70 guests?

The South Downs Suite at Tottington Manor can accommodate up to 100 guests in the Daytime and 180 guests in the evening for Weddings, we can also accommodate weddings with fewer guests and have a special package for Intimate Weddings of 30 guests. Our TERRA Restaurant also has Private Dining Rooms which can provide a Celebration Dinner for up to 14 guests.

Can we customise our wedding at Tottington Manor?

Yes. The plans above are designed as clear starting points, but every wedding is personal. The Tottington Manor Weddings team can help shape your package around your guest list, food preferences, drinks, timings and overall wedding vision. You can book a viewing with one of our team who will listen to your ideas for your wedding day and see how we can make that a reality or you can also email us at weddings@tottingtonmanor.co.uk or call us on 01903 815757

How many bedrooms are there at Tottington Manor

Tottington Manor Hotel has 12 bedrooms, 5 Superior rooms, some with jacuzzis, and 7 Comfort rooms, all rooms are double occupancy and we have some rooms that can also accommodate extra child or adult beds. Couples usually find that with Close family and friends they use all our rooms and our weddings team can advise on other places to stay locally including Wickwoods, THe Wild Hotel, AirBNB Homes locally The Castle Inn

Do your wedding prices include accommodation?

Our Exclusive package includes 2 days of accommodation for all rooms from 3pm on the day before the wedding with an extended check out of 12pm the day after the wedding. Our South Downs Package includes either of our Getting Ready Suites the night before with the Honeymoon suite on the night of the wedding and our Celebration package includes the honeymoon suite on the night of the wedding.

How many guests are your wedding prices based on?

The Exclusive, South Downs and Celebration wedding prices are based on 70 guests. The team can help tailor your final wedding quote around your guest numbers, chosen season and preferred package.

What is the difference between the Exclusive and South Downs packages?

The Exclusive package is a two-day hire option with full exclusive use of Tottington Manor, all 12 bedrooms for two nights, private AA Rosette chef and concierge, arrival reception, tasting menu, wedding day celebration and farewell brunch. The South Downs package is a full-day wedding package centred around the South Downs Suite, private garden and bar and includes a getting ready suite the night before and exclusivity of the Hotel rooms for your guests to book overnight.

Is the Celebration package available at weekends?

The Celebration package at Tottington Manor is only available Monday to Thursday. Please do talk to our team as we will almost certainly be able to tailor a wedding to suit your requirements if we are the right venue for you.

We've dined in your TERRA Restaurant, is the food the same?

Yes, its the same team of Chefs and locally sourced ingredients as our TERRA Restaurant, the dishes are plated differently to allow us to serve 70 guests at once, but the flavour and the creativity is still all there.

We like the South Downs Package, but our family would like to stay the night before and have a more personal family meal is that possible?

Yes, your family can absolutely stay in the hotel the night before, this makes getting ready for all your closest guests much easier. Our TERRA Restaurant private dining rooms are also ideal for gatherings of 8 to 24 guests the night before a wedding to celebrate together, our weddings team will be able to arrange this for you, subject to availability of course.

We have some family and friends living overseas how close is Tottington Manor to an Airport?

We are just 25 minutes drive from London Gatwick Airport and 1 hour from London Heathrow airport, also for those guests using Eurostar or travelling by train from other parts of the country, the nearest railway station is Hassocks, which is 56 minutes from London Victoria and has a permanent Taxi rank,with a journey time of 15 minutes to Tottington Manor.

We think Tottington Manor could be a great venue for our Wedding, what do we do?

Amazing, we are so pleased you like what you have seen, if you haven't already then please Download our wedding brochure, the next step is to book a viewing with one of our team who will listen to your ideas for your wedding day and see how we can make that a reality at Tottington Manor. You can also email us at weddings@tottingtonmanor.co.uk or call us on 01903 815757

Is the Celebrations package available at weekends

The celebrations package is usually only available Monday to Thursday, although we do have a Twilight package available on a Sunday which offers a later start and great value. If you are looking for a wedding in the next few months it is always worth asking if we have had any cancelations, as in these circumstances we can offer greater flexibility over the packages.

Why Choose Tottington Manor for Your Perfect Wedding Day in Sussex?

Choosing the right venue for your wedding is a crucial decision, and we believe thatTottington Manor stands out for its exceptional service and breathtaking location in the heart of the countryside. Located in close proximity to Brighton, Worthing, Horsham and Burgess Hill we are easy to get to, but a peaceful and relaxing location.
Our experienced Wedding Coordinators are committed to making your wedding planning process seamless and enjoyable. We will help you tailor your day and ensure you have the best day of your life.
For more Petit Weddings we also offer our Intimate Wedding Package which you can read more about here.
You can also find out more about our Twilight Weddings on a Sunday here.

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Testimonials from Happy Wedding Couples

A personal recommendation is always the best when making such a key decision as deciding on your wedding venue, we belive we are honest, sincere and deliver on our promises. We have owned Tottington Manor since 2021 and delivered over 200 amazing weddings but don't take our word for it, see the reviews below or visit or the reviews on either of our google pages. |Tottington Manor Weddings| or |Tottington Manor |

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Ollie & Seviley

"We just wanted to say a huge thank you to you both and all the staff who made our day so special. Everything was great. We cannot thank you enough for being amazing from the start - we knew straight away we wouldn't be let down - we couldn't have done it without you. Since the wedding we've had so many positive comments about the venue and the food. We will always be visiting, especially now Tottington Manor has a really special meaning for us."

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Jennie & Ian

"Oh my goodness, where to start?! What a wonderful experience we had at Tottington Manor. I cannot recommend highly enough. From the very beginning, meeting Helen who showed me around, to every following step of arranging with Cat, we were made to feel like one of the family... All the staff were so attentive, making us feel like royalty. An absolute perfect day in the perfect setting. Best day of my life"

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Liam & Lucy

"We had our wedding at Tottington and the day ran absolutely seamlessly. The food was excellent, staff members were extremely friendly and accommodating, and on hand to help with everything! We decided with little notice to have the ceremony outside, which Cat and her team organised brilliantly. We felt incredibly calm on the day, and knew we were in extremely capable hands! In the lead up to the wedding, Cat was brilliant- extremely organised, helpful and was in contact with our suppliers to make sure everything was in place for our day. Thank you so much!"

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